I'm so sorry, that's horrible! I know Seattle has a program to help with housing in situations like this, your area might have one too. You could check the city/county/state websites and see what's offered. There's also WIC which can help with food costs. My baby was in the NICU too, I know how awful it is. If there is anything I can do to help or if you just want someone to talk to, let me know. I hope everything turns around for you and that your little guy makes a speedy recovery!