Tomorrow is our 4 yr wedding anniversary. He had plans to call of but we are still under state emergency and I would rather have him rebuild bridges and road ways for the flood victims. You know I told somebody why we wasn't doing anything and some ladies was saying 'I'd rather have my SO home. It's not his fault those people are victims' like are you fucking serious right now!? My SO chose this field and the responsibility that came with it. If he would rather help those in need then so be it. I would do the same if the roles was switched. I can't get over how selfish some women can be. It's baffles me.