So my so called friend is mad at me because I've been busy wth my baby shower and my family from another state. She's upset because I didn't reach out to her regarding her accomplishments and congratulated her! What the hell??
@torrilove14, thank you! And take care as well 😊
@mlgh92 I will pray for you and your family and hope that you do. All that matters in this world are those given to us by God. Our family that we create is the most important thing in the world. So if your friends don't want to be there for you, screw them! You don't want people like that around your child anyways!
Thank you @abigail_62216 I'll have a baby one day! They say my stress levels are high and it's making it more difficult for me so every time I have a "friend" who acts like that and doesn't talk to me, I see it as one less stress factor to worry about.
np, smh i hate that that came about. just take care of yourself hun@abigail_62216
@torrilove14, thank you!! That's what I told her and now we are not friends anymore. I can care less!
she honestly can't be upset if she's not supporting you. that's double standards. I wouldn't worry about it she would stay mad.
you don't need the stress.@abigail_62216,
@torrilove14 I told her that, and I felt I didn't owe her any explanation since she didn't even come to my baby shower or even called me at all but she wants me to stay on top of everything she has going on and cheer her on all the way, and then the one time im busy she wants to argue with me? I'm 9 months pregnant I can't be dealing with childish pettiness
@mlgh92, wow! That's terrible! I am so sorry for your loss! That's not right! They obviously don't know the definition of friendship!
I would just tell her you didn't mean any harm, you're just tryna get things ready for your baby. if she's you're real friend she would understand
But they're real quick to text me all pissed off because I missed something. I can't be expected to know everything. I'm married. TTC, and have my own things going on. If they want to be petty, fine, I have my husband. Lol, keep your head up and focus on your family!
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