mommakaz
New Mexico
Freaking out about birth control. Firstly, My doctors told me I was unable to get pregnant. Though, here I am... I can't take the Depo shot or pills because they make me extremely ill. (I've tried multiple ones for years) I don't want anything implanted internally. The patch just falls right off with my active lifestyle. I don't want surgery for something permanent. Condoms and spermicides obviously don't work... So what, I'm left with Vasectomy... As if I'm ever going to talk him into that. He wants a million kids, I'm done with just this one. I'll love my baby boy even more when he arrives. But this pregnancy is a high risk and has had so many complications, I'm not okay with signing up to go through this again... So stressed, overwhelmed and discouraged...
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Exactly. plus everyone here is saying once my baby is older I'll get baby fever again. and my fiance wants more kids... like a lot. just not sure if I want to put myself through it all again. so difficult to decide! @deeanna
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Exactly. plus everyone here is saying once my baby is older I'll get baby fever again. and my fiance wants more kids... like a lot. just not sure if I want to put myself through it all again. so difficult to decide! @deeanna
@mommaka yea that's a huge decision, have to be 100% clear on what u want
@deeanna, i was thinking that. but my mom and two sisters have had it done and they both regret it. I don't know what to do. maybe step away from it all and come back to it in a different mindset.
If you know that you won't want more kids due to a medical condition, you could explore something permanent like tubal ligation
@hladybug, plus it reduces breast milk supply, and I'm already not on track to breast feed... Its difficult being a woman! omg
@hladybug, yes, that's why I have fear of it. But, I'm going to check more into it for sure.
@michelle2220, I'm not so sure about that. I have a heart condition so it's put my life in danger since I can't take my heart medication. And has put a huge stain on my relationship and stress on my fiance. I really don't see myself doing this again. Though my fiance wants more kids.
@mommakaz, Really? I loved the nuva ring. I'm such a ditz I couldn't remember the damn pill. Lol I hope you can find something that works for you. It's tough being a woman.
I've had a lot of friends have pain and complications from the nuvaring and IUD. So I'm just not sure. Seems hopeless to me. But, I'll definitely look deeper into both of them. Thank you! @allie3340 @hladybug
trust me you'll change your mind. my first pregnancy was so hard and I got so sick and I totally forgot everything and here I am now really sick again and probably gonna forget. when they start getting older you miss having a baby.
what about an Iud? i had one for 5 years before we decided to get pregnant. it was the best thing ever!! some last 3 years other 5 and I know there's one that's 10years. super easy and no up keep. i know everyone is different but it was amazing for me! on the plus side my periods were so light theh only lasted like 2 to 4 days.
I know you said you don't want anything surgically inserted but have you checked out something like the nuva ring(no surgery and usually not enough hormones to make you sick)? Other than that your options are definitely limited. Sounds like a huge pain. 😯