is it wrong of me to turn down my fiance mom sister and grandma offering to come clean while I'm on bed rest? it's only till Friday and his sister is pregnant too and has her own problems with it. I had my dad and sister here for 2 days helping me clean and paint. but his family wants to clean closets and shelves and cabinets l, things that Tessa won't be in. the only thing that I have left to do is put Tessas stuff up and then the normal cleaning of a house. but they are all pissed off at me for telling them no thanks for their help. they make me feel bad about myself all the time I never feel good enough for them. they always come around on a day I haven't cleaned yet then talk about the house being dirty... I'm sorry I'm 9 months pregnant and have been sick this entire pregnancy. do yall think I'm in the wrong here???