if my husband cheated on me with his ex wife (he was with her 12 years) I'd be done. him and I have been together 4 years, but I'd abandon the relationship if he went back. there's a 13 year age gap between him and I, and a 20 year age gap between him and his ex. the first year of our relationship, was a secret affair. he cheated on the old hag with me and we snuck around for a whole year.

not really.

so you think the history they share has nothing to do with letting go @chela915

His never going to let go. If he wanted to let go he would have done it right away. @mommy_faith
agree

exactly how i feel @mommy_faith 😢

@chela915,

i know that part... do you think a man would be able to let go? how can someone have a home and a family and step out but claim to be so inlove you

I would never be able to trust him again. I feel like she obviously means something to him

They might have too much history maybe.