for those who have been following me I have decent news. my ex has agreed to pay child support (which is great because he can afford to being a jockey) I haven't gone to the courts yet just because our son hasn't been born yet. he has finally accepted the fact I am naming him Timothy and after all of his threats to take him away from me he has finally agreed I will be primary care taker. he will have visitation rights, again I'm cool with that. That's something my father never wanted. At least he is trying. We have also agreed that we are just not ment to be together so being 'friends' is a better option for Timothy. We agreed that we can stay on an even level and make things work for the sake of our son. I feel like we have made a huge mile stone. oh and I'm 31 weeks today, only 9 more to go before I can get back to work and school