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Mystee Jonker
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for those who have been following me I have decent news. my ex has agreed to pay child support (which is great because…

for those who have been following me I have decent news. my ex has agreed to pay child support (which is great because he can afford to being a jockey) I haven't gone to the courts yet just because our son hasn't been born yet. he has finally accepted the fact I am naming him Timothy and after all of his threats to take him away from me he has finally agreed I will be primary care taker. he will have visitation rights, again I'm cool with that. That's something my father never wanted. At least he is trying. We have also agreed that we are just not ment to be together so being 'friends' is a better option for Timothy. We agreed that we can stay on an even level and make things work for the sake of our son. I feel like we have made a huge mile stone. oh and I'm 31 weeks today, only 9 more to go before I can get back to work and school

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emtackett

emilyВ ожидании первенца

That sounds really great. It sounds like you guys are well on your way to being successful at co parenting :)

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beansprout

Mystee Jonker

@firstbaby_girl, @kreese88 I'm getting him to send a letter from NY so I do have it in writing and not just text message.

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boymomx4

Boymomx4+1girlМама троих детей

Yes get it in writing that's your best bet in case he decides to change his mind

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firstbaby_girl

JennaМама дочки (1 год)

Try to get it in writing and have him sign and date it

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@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.