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Shaylee Simmons
Shaylee Simmons
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Is Smoking During Pregnancy Really Okay?

If this offends anyone I guess you can unfriend me or block me, whatever. But, it really makes me angry when women who smoke cigarettes go around saying "I smoked cigarettes during my pregnancy and my baby came out just fine." Good for you, you're lucky. Wait a few years and see if you're still lucky...you never know what problems may arise with your child that go back to you smoking while pregnant. I guess my point is if you know the risks and you're going to smoke anyway, please don't go around talking about it like it's okay...it really just isn't. Ugh.

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brit1335

Brittany ElliottВ ожидании первенца

Thanks! :)

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@babybue16, I understand exactly and I appreciate you saying that. I'm so tired of reading things pregnant moms post that try to justify smoking while pregnant. In my opinion there is no justification and like I said if you know the risks and are going to anyways you probably shouldn't talk about it...works me up too.

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babybue16

BВ ожидании первенца

I get worked up every time I read a post about people smoking while pregnant. It's not ok. It's not even good for adults who aren't pregnant so why expose a baby to that. There's no excuse. Even if there is trouble quitting cold turkey, there is no reason why someone should still be smoking at 28 weeks. Im pretty sure it's possible to reduce to zero a lot faster than that. I appreciate that you posted this especially since you are a smoker and have anxiety issues.

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@brit1335, good for you girl! Proud of you!!

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brit1335

Brittany ElliottВ ожидании первенца

I'm diagnosed with both PTSD and anxiety & I quit cold turkey as well.

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@gracelynnfaith0728, and also this post is solely about cigarettes any pregnant woman should monitor those other things as well

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@nicemmcha2015, exactly...Like I said above I have severe Anxiety and PTSD and I smoked a lot before and I quit taking all meds/smoking and dealt with my problems through therapy. I was not risking it when it comes to my daughter.

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@brit1335, @theinkedmommy exactly ladies and thanks @jujulove13

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@gracelynnfaith0728, yeah there's always some sort of special circumstance. I have PTSD and severe Anxiety and I quit taking my medicine cold turkey and I also quit smoking a pack a day. If your doctor tells you something you shouldn't ever disregard it but js.

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threeandcounting

Nicole MatthewsМама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)

People are selfish beings. that's all it comes down to. they do what they want and then will make up excuses till they are blue in the face as to why they do it. there is no excuse for that. anxiety my butt. they make meds specifically for that that are pregnancey safe. I smoked for 6 years and once we decided we wanted a baby I stopped completely 4 months before. to me.. My kids mean that much. it makes me angry because that kid is the one that's going to pay for it in the long run health wise when they didn't ask for it.

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brit1335

Brittany ElliottВ ожидании первенца

A woman at work told me that "others smoke. I'll be fine." and then her baby was born at 32 weeks. coincidence? maybe. but soooo not worth risking it.

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gracelynnfaith0728

Cathy

I'm 28 weeks measuring 3 weeks ahead. I smoke. I have issues with stress and anxiety, and ciggs calm me down. My OBGYN even said for me to not quit cold turkey because of my issues. I reduced. Everyone has a different opinion. There's a lot of things that can harm pregnancy. My daughter is perfectly healthy, but if i just up and quit it can harm her more than it can help. Eating too much salt can cause problems, eating too much sugar can cause problems. A lot of things cause issue, not just ciggs.

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jujulove13

JuliannaМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

agreed 100%

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@goodbyelullabye, there's just no argument that it's good for your health lol!

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goodbyelullabye

R.

my husband has asthma too. he said he's had it since he was a kid but I know all his coughing and wheezing is caused from him smoking.

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@goodbyelullabye, 😑 I really suffered from second hand smoke as a child. I had horrible asthma.

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goodbyelullabye

R.

I know I got mad at my MIL when she said "a little second hand smoke isn't going to hurt your baby".Im glad I dont have to deal with that crazy old bat anymore.

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shayleesimmons

Shaylee SimmonsВ ожидании первенца

@gor_jess, it gets me going 😑 I haven't smoked in over 8 months (since I found out I was pregnant)...it can be done.

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gor_jess

JessМама дочки (3 года), беременна (27 нед.)

Seriously 🙌🏼🙌🏼

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I feel so disrespected, as you can see I asked my mother not to smoke tomorrow, being that she will be at the hospital…

I feel so disrespected, as you can see I asked my mother not to smoke tomorrow, being that she will be at the hospital as in being induced and until I actually have the baby. I don't want her covered in cigarette smoke around me and my newborn child. And DAMN sure don't want her holding him if she's going to smoke. It's pretty selfish of her to not just say okay and respect my wishes, in my opinion. It's just crazy to me how she'll talk about not being addicted to smoking and that she could go without it, yet clearly isn't planning on doing so on such an important day. #RANTOVER