So another night of feeling crappy and in pain so my mums doing bath and feeds. Just want this to end so I can be the mummy my boy deserves! Actually so upset and in tears because I can't do what I need to for him. 😭😭😭
LauraМама двоих (младенец)
Yeah not having the dad around would be heartbreaking. I can't imagine it. When you look at your baby and you're so in love with it, you really struggle to understand how somebody couldn't be interested. I know this is completely different but when my son was born and again when he was 10 days old I reached out to my mum and sent her photos of him and she told me 'I'm not interested. don't contact me again" it's hard. you want to share you're gorgeous baby and they're amazing moments. have you reached out to the dad ( not that you should have to) it might just help you to feel like you've done everything you can (document your attempts ) and that way your son can never blame you and you will both know you've tried your hardest. otherwise, all I can say is, focus on small goals. an hour at a time. A morning at a time. A day at a time. try hard to enjoy your boy because they grow so quickly. try to focus on what you've both got and not what you haven't got 😪
Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца
@tuftyturtle, thank you! Just his whole "dad" situation I think is playing a huge part😞 @bambi16 it's the worst feeling in the world!!! Xxx
Danielle WrightМама сына-младенца
Stay strong hun..I know the feeling. 4 weeks later and I get immobilising pain that stops me being able to look after my little girl. Makes me feel so weak like I can't look after her as well as I want too xx
LauraМама двоих (младенец)
being a happy, alert, confident mummy who loves him un conditionally is what he needs and if you need a rest for that to happen then that's what's best for him and that's what he needs. babies pick up on your stress and your emotions so take the evening or the night or whatever you need and re charge. If it's more than mummy life that's getting you down then try to push it aside and focus on one hour of the day at a time and just work to tiny goals. It will get better 😘
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So I keep feeling these lil sharp pains on my right side. You do get pains like that before you start your period right.? Remember I had that dark brown spotting for a few hours last month on the 22. My period suppose to start today.
Becca Stirling·Мама сына-младенца
I tried all the way through the pregnancy and he eventually blocked me. Told his family and they just ignored me. You actually nailed how I feel in one it actually brought me to tears reading it! Because I love him so much and am so proud of him, I just don't understand atall how he can want to miss out on something so precious and beautiful.. I look at him and he is the spit of his dad! But aw god! That must have really hurt you! Atleast you have your 2 beautiful kiddies and the support of their dad! But thank you so much @tuftyturtle x
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