it was for me, it was my first pregnancy. I got induced and I knew I was either going to go natural or a c-section and i had a c-section and i was in labor for over 24 hours and they said sorry you wont dilate past 4 so c-section. Take the Epidural i waited too long for it lol it was so painful

it's normal to be nervous in general once you hit those 37-40 weeks definitely not limited to ftms either lol I'm on my fourth & already a little nervous just thinking about the whole labor & delivery process