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Bri
Bri
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

no judgement please.. I have been in a relationship for two weeks now but have been going on dates with my SO for 7…

no judgement please.. I have been in a relationship for two weeks now but have been going on dates with my SO for 7 months. I feel like I'm ruining my relationship because I'm terrified of having sex now. It's been a year and almost a month since I gave birth to my son. I'm scared that it will hurt and that I will get pregnant again. Though I know he won't leave me like the sperm donor my son has as a father. I'm just not ready to go through all of it again. He has promised me he won't hurt me but I'm still scared. I'm not sure how to make a compromise when it's me that isn't sure about doing things.

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mommastone

Kristina

Мама сына-младенца

It sounds like you're not ready for another relationship. The only way to get past this is to change your mind and the way you see things. Talk to someone who has a steady good relationship. Be positive. I know the past can haunt but don't let it affect the now. I know it's hard. I hope you can get past this. You can! :)

bentleyandmommy

Bri

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@mommastone, I believe you're right. he is scared about the relationship part due to the past. so my past relationship maybe playing a part into my fear. thank you for replying and making a great suggestion 😊

mommastone

Kristina

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I am so happy to have helped in any way. Good luck hun!

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all…

My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.