no judgement please.. I have been in a relationship for two weeks now but have been going on dates with my SO for 7 months. I feel like I'm ruining my relationship because I'm terrified of having sex now. It's been a year and almost a month since I gave birth to my son. I'm scared that it will hurt and that I will get pregnant again. Though I know he won't leave me like the sperm donor my son has as a father. I'm just not ready to go through all of it again. He has promised me he won't hurt me but I'm still scared. I'm not sure how to make a compromise when it's me that isn't sure about doing things.