My SO's brother lives here for free, and doesn't clean up ANYTHING in the house at all, the only thing he does is his own laundry, and if I have laundry in the washer or dryer, he will throw it in the floor.. I've been begging my SO to say something to him but he never does, well today I finally went off because we are missing half of our dishes and they are piling up molding in his room and he ran up to me like he was going to hit me and started calling me a stupid bitch and told me to say another word and he was going to "show me how much of an asshole he can be" I told my SO and all he said was that I need to "Quit fighting with him over petty shit" I'm having a bad day :/