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I haven't been able to hold my son at all. I wasn't even the first person to see him. I had to wait 24hrs before I could…

I haven't been able to hold my son at all. I wasn't even the first person to see him. I had to wait 24hrs before I could get out the bed to even see him. While my family and his took trips to see him. The first day the tell me I can hold him was today so I text my "fiancé" they'll let me hold him tonight he says okay. I go see my son twice a day once during the day and once at night with his dad. So thinking we going tonight I'll hold him then. Nope he decides once we get there that he doesn't want to spend an hour for that....., he has work in the am let me give you some background he works at 8am but doesn't go to sleep until 2/3 am by choice. So needless to say I'm beyond disappointed and upset. This not driving is the worse I'm bout ready just to get in my car and drive myself....feeling empty let down not feeling the love

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jayclark

ShakiraМама сына-младенца

Thank you ladies I won't

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missing294user

missing294userМама дочки-младенца

I delivered my daughter on the 3rd at 28w3d and seeing her when i want to is the best part of my day. don't let him take that from you!

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jayclark

ShakiraМама сына-младенца

I'm trying not to just bc my parents would have a heart attack if I was

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dylansmommy123

dylansmommy123

trust me i know. and my boyfriend was an ass too. Against doctors orders once i was discharged i drove myself back and forth to the hospital after having a c section @jayclark

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jayclark

ShakiraМама сына-младенца

Thank you I delivered at 27 weeks same reason it all happened so fast

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dylansmommy123

dylansmommy123

im so sorry. i delivered my daughter at 28 weeks due to severe preeclamcia. i will keep u in my prayers@jayclark

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