still try to conceive. its been 2 months since I had my daughter and although we will never get over her death, we want to try again. Not on birth control anymore and I just came off my menstrual two weeks ago. since then I've been having pains in my stomach.....but I haven't came on my menstrual and these pains been happening off and on for like a week now. Took 3 home pregnancy tests and they all came back negative. So now I'm here at the doctors to see my doc and see what's causing these pains.