oh no. she knew he was my dad. but she didnt want to seem like a whore divorcing him and getting ready to marry my sisters father. so she lied. she still denies it I had a pat test. she cheated on him. thats why they divorced. then she cheated on my sisters dad with him again. and thats when I was conceived. she was asked in divorce court if she was pregnant. she lied and said no. even though she was 3 1/2 months pregnant. she saw more money with my sisters dad than ron. hes on my birth certificate because I was born while they were still married. granted she also had my sister while she was married to him also. were 11 months apart. shes selfish and very materialistic. I guess she destroyed all of my dads things when he served her with divorce papers.

Nope! My mom is the same way. She flipped her lid when I met my half sister. She still stalks my Facebook and tells me to Unfriend people because they're "using me to spy on her". Just do you. Some people just don't grow out of being egotistical. It sucks when it's your mom, but /: can't let her stop you from living your life.

just respect that she had her reasons. my mom kept my father from me and I get why but I still wish I would have been able to get to know my family on that side. I can't talk to her about it because it's automatically me being dramatic. You are an adult and you can make the decision now. she probably just feels threatened. Let her know she can't be replaced but you do need her trust and support to know this other part of you.

thank you. shes made my entire pregnancy all about her. its terrible

I don't think you are in the wrong, she might think that she was doing what's best for you but she has to realise now that you are old enough to make your own decisions and have decided to get to know him x

nope. not in the wrong at all