I'm 27 and I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I live in burns oregon and I'm trying to find some laws into the mother being primary custody of the child before going to court cus I can't afford to get full custody of the baby and I also don't know how to go about it in getting custody of the child and I'm also scared that he will try and kidnapped the baby while I only have primary custody of the child and scared that if he dose that theirs nothing I can do to get the child back cus theirs no court order stating that I have primary or custody and I need help in doing something like before the baby will be hear and how much the custody will cost to get please I need some help or something so I know and stuff