I swear people act like they've never seen a smaller pregnant woman before. You ARENT supposed to gain more than 25 lbs and pregnancy isn't an excuse to eat whatever you want and pack on the pounds 😑 I'm not SMALL, I'm just ALL BABY!!!
Ugh I totally understand but mine is the other way around with this baby I'm showing so much and they tell wow your big I'm a small girl so it makes me feel a little bad and the strange part about it is I have only gained 15 lbs so I'm like ok well thanks
Obviously you are supposed to gain some weight... But not too much. That's what I was trying to say. It's like everyone wants to shove food down my throat... When IM constantly shoving food down my own throat bc I'm always hungry! Just because mama isn't huge and has a perfect round bump, doesn't mean she is starving her baby @alyen2 that's all I was saying in this post!
Mine is long too. I also have a tilted back uterus so she's more in my back. But everyone just has a comment for everything it seems. Super annoying. 😒 @mamatobetayyy
Everyone carries differently! My torso is super long and she's in my back so I hide her pretty well, don't worry mama I'm sure she's fine :)! Pregnancy makes people think they can suddenly comment on your weight and its ridiculous. Each woman has her own weight struggles, whether it's 'too much' or 'too little' .. It's no one else's business and no one wants to hear it either way! You can't judge a babies health by how much weight the mom has or hasn't put on @shyannxo
My doctor told me to gain 25-35 pounds... So yes you are supposed to gain weight sometimes... And yes, more than 25 is fine especially for those that were underweight prior to pregnancy. I was underweight and gained 35 during my pregnancy and was still small. I carried more into my back. Everyone is different.
I go through this struggle everyday 😞 everyone has me so worried that I scheduled a private ultrasound for $200 to make sure she's still growing okay..
@jessica408, then this post isn't referring to you :) if you feel shitty, that's on you. 💁🏻 I'm allowed to have my own complaints just like you! People say cause I've only gained 10 lbs that I'm starving my baby, and that's annoying. Last I checked, I'm pregnant and complain about whatever I want and not have to sensor for everybody else's feelings and their own types of pregnancy, this about mine. Move along 😘
@mamatobetayyy, I got yelled at for being upset that people were telling me how much weight I was gaining. if you wouldn't say it before I was pregnant then don't say it now.
@mamatobetayyy Oh trust me... It's annoying. I remember a couple times people asked when I was due and I said "due for what?" and walked off... lol rude I know but I don't ask you anything. What's worse is when strangers come up and start rubbing your belly....
good for you. I gained 40 pounds!! guess what, I didn't eat terribly and pack on pounds in purpose. I'm a small person too. just because someone is rude to you. don't make other women feel shitty.
The fact is every pregnancy is different. I carried both children completely different. My first I gained 45lbs and I am a small person. I ate healthy but I was starving all the time. Second pregnancy I had to force myself to eat and only gained 15lbs. My babies are bigger and I used to be asked all the time if I was having twins or they where concerned that I was literally going to pop. People don't mean to be rude (or maybe they do) but on smaller women a 7lbs+ baby looks huge