Why am I not excited about being pregnant?! EVERYONE and I do mean EVERYONE around me is ... I'm annoyed with my SO and I just want this to be over with.. My first child and I feel like I should be super happy 😔😔
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Where is everyone from? Roll Call Anyone?! ??? I have noticed that everyone on here is from a little bit of everywhere & i was just curious to see where everyone was from...don't be shy...I'll go first ?
My doctor told me I have severe preeclampsia😔😔😔 now I'm scared💔 I hope Leah is born healthy🌸 and I hope I deliver her with no complications😔
kateennia·
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idk I hope it gets better soon, I'm going through hell right now myself @rileysb16 and thanks so am I!
Shannon·
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Smh when does it get better ??!!! And you can vent to me anytime as well , I'm a good listener love ! @kantoine
kateennia·
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it sucks because they only think of themselves and think everything they do is good;especially when we tell them it's not okay. just stay as positive as much as you can. if you want to vent or talk you can always contact me. I'm going through hell myself since I was six weeks pregnant to my son turning one this coming monday.
Shannon·
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I'm sorry to hear that 😔.. But yes he's not physically abusive at all BUT he stresses me tf out !!! Constantly saying and doing things he knows will upset me smh .. I try really hard to think about my baby and what's best for me but like you said hormones play a major part in my feelings right now ! @kantoine
kateennia·
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I know exactly how you feel, my BD was horrible and still is. he's not a good person and is continuously making are lives hell. I wasn't happy during my pregnancy at all at birth my son died but he's clearly meant to be here. so please don't stress (not so easy with uncontrolled hormones). just be careful. my BD isn't physically abusive but he's just a horrible human being.
babymay2016·
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I mean it's pretty difficult to be super happy, while you're in pain! Doesn't mean I love my son any less or anything of the sort, but I really hate being pregnant also. I feel like I can never express this because people that aren't pregnant don't understand that just because I don't like being in pain doesn't mean I'm not happy that I'm having a baby. It has gotten increasingly uncomfortable every single day, and I am also ready for it to be over! I have seriously just learned to shut my mouth about it and cry in silence, because people say shit like "if you can't handle it with a smile, you shouldn't have gotten pregnant" uhmmm its NOT really the most pleasant thing. It sucks. We are blessed, doesn't mean it doesn't suck. Hang in there!
Kayla·
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Thank you 💕 hang in there it's all worth it in the end
Shannon·
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I hate it ... Smh ..... And she's beautiful @kparis thanks love ❤️
Shannon·
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Yes guess it's just " baby blues" @babymay2016 😩
Kayla·
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I hated being pregnant! Hated it so so so much! But I am so in love with my baby girl, you'll be okay mama.
babymay2016·
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Well hey, nobody but you has to deal with the sickness, pains, and the annoying SO. I totally understand. I'm super happy most of the time, but sometimes just really annoyed with everyone's excitement, while I'm in pain. And people telling me that I should still be happy WHILE I'm in pain. Very difficult to adjust to. I think it is totally normal.