maybe wait till your son is home and then decide. because honestly they're very overwhelming especially once they start crawling/walking. its a lot to keep up with, with two babies close in age. my sons are 3 1/2 yrs apart and its still hard because my oldest is hyper and everywhere while my 9month old is wanting all the attention, getting into everything and always by my side. it makes it harder to have time for yourself, which you need.