veda1010
Veda
Good afternoon mommies!
I've been having a really hard time emotionally adapting to being pregnant. I am 20. All of my friends are about the same age, where all we used to do was party, smoke, drink, be stupid.. and my world completely changed overnight. I feel like I need to make new friends? because all of mine are still in their 20's and will continue to do stupid things regardless of me. I can't seem to balance out the friendships.. I do care about all of them.. but I'm not at that point anymore.. I feel like none of them consider my feelings or my life now.. I just want to meet some mommies out here so I can feel normal with someone again..
I've been having a really hard time emotionally adapting to being pregnant. I am 20. All of my friends are about the same age, where all we used to do was party, smoke, drink, be stupid.. and my world completely changed overnight. I feel like I need to make new friends? because all of mine are still in their 20's and will continue to do stupid things regardless of me. I can't seem to balance out the friendships.. I do care about all of them.. but I'm not at that point anymore.. I feel like none of them consider my feelings or my life now.. I just want to meet some mommies out here so I can feel normal with someone again..
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I got pregnant at 18 I definitely lost a ton of "friends" but we've moved on fine! I'm happy that you chose to move on from that lifestyle! stay strong girl!!!
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I got pregnant at 18 I definitely lost a ton of "friends" but we've moved on fine! I'm happy that you chose to move on from that lifestyle! stay strong girl!!!
Same for me I'm 26 and my friends and siblings party a lot. I have no mommy friends (17 weeks) I've just been hanging with my man. Keep your head up girl. You will meet moms out there 😀. Stay healthy:)
same happened here except I'm a lil older lol..I'm also 20 weeks and expecting a baby girl @veda1010 it's harsh when u see ppls true colors..but now u got all of us here on preggie for support😊 good vibes and blessings ur way
all of you are so amazing! I'm very happy to have so much support! @c.f1023 Hello :) @babymay2016 thank you so much.. @chloe_faith2016 thank you!@annmommy2be Hello. I would love some new friends!
hey girl I'm 20! we can be friends (:
I'm right there with you girl, it's hard! ❤️
Just FYI you have to put @ and someones name for them to be notified of your response. But yes I can't do anything I used to do anymore. We used to go to shows and pool halls all the time, and I can't go anymore... My boyfriend tries to find places where we can still go that do not smoke inside, but still haven't found one. I am also looking for mommy friends but I'm sick a lot and just stay home anyways. It is a very tough change.
I feel the same way! I went to a local show that we all used to go to.. and everyone smoked inside.. it makes me so sad and angry.. I do the same thing.. I stay home and stay to myself because I know my friends don't care...
Hey my name is Cyra and I am 21 and I had a hard adjusting too. If you need someone to talk to I am here
I feel the exact same, though I haven't really found any new friends. I have seen some old ones but yes they don't care about anything but themselves, and don't know what it feels like to put someone before themselves, like how being a mother feels. They would still smoke around me and drink and do whatever. I pretty much just sit at home alone, because that's what is best for my son. I went out on New Years Eve and people were smoking cigarettes inside. My boyfriend goes "HEY she's pregnant!" and they're all like "Yeahhh, sooo." You can't get someone without a child to feel how we feel, so I just spent my evening outside where it was 20°. I stick to myself now. The change is very hard, but all I think about is my son now and this is what I have to do.
I'm Veda. :)
I'm here 💯 hi I'm Priscilla