I feel like a horrible parent for leaving my husband. mainly because of my daughter. I'm obviously takig both kids with me. I just feel like my daughter (3 years old) is going to be shattered and so confused. and I don't know what to say to make that easier. I haven't told her anything yet. because I don't have a set date as to when we are moving. I just know its soon. this kills me. she's so sweet. and smart. But she's three....its seems as though my husband is leaving it up to me to tell her...although I read that it's best for us both to tell her together...I just want to cry at the thought of her being confused...