So, i really need some help. My stepmom has completely gotten my baby to the point when he screams bloody murder everytime u set the baby down. She picks him up in the middle of me patting his butt till he falls asleep, she has no manners. She just picks him up whenever as if she was the one in labor for 15 hrs with him. Shes a big drama queen, so i cant say anything to her because she will twist my words to my dad and make me seem disrespectful. One day i blew up on her about it because i told everyone in the house to limit pjcking him up. She just holds him non stop. Then she blaimed me and said its my fault hes so spoiled and cries when put down. I never hpld him because she always holds him. So i feel like im gonna end up being a horrible mom because im scared to hold MY KID in my house becaue i get blaimed for everything. I just dont know what to do 😳