@mrs.jones253, so true

its been important for my son to see me. he calls me and the birth father hus "birthday parents". Everyone handles it different but as long as there are no assumptions and a lot of understanding it can work. :)

@mrs.jones253,

It's what's best for my baby. Plus as long as they know who their birth mother is I'll be happy

That's a huge part. My son is going on 4 years and I'm blessed with a family who tells my son the truth. It is important to have some understanding but ever situation is different. It a miracle what you have chosen to do.

@mrs.jones253,

it is the family even wants me a part of my babies life as my child is growing up

Honestly it is one of the hardest thing a mother or father will ever go through. But it is also one of the most rewarding things to see your child being raised the way you believe they should. if you don't mind me asking is it open?