I feel you! My husband will not get up to take care of our son without me begging him. Then he will complain. especially during nights. He always gets angry if i ask him to go take care of our boy because i was up with him a few times. He says he is exhausted and needs his rest for work. yet i work too, take care of our son all day, and am starting school. He wont even get up in the morning after he has had 8+ hours of sleep to help me and let me go rest a bit. Says he too got up through the night and he is tired from it. All because he opened his eyes when he cried and then of course went back to bed 😂😂😂 literally they dont realize how their actions make us feel.