I know mine was the same until like 3 days ago it started kicking and moving harder and they can feel it now. mom is a doctor and she didn't believed me until today she felt it for the first time. I think when the touching hand is warm they like it and get calm down. cuz my sisters hand was freezing and he moved a lot she could felt it all she wanted. but mom has warm hands and baby didn't wanted to move while she had her hand on. he started moving again when she stopped touching. anyways she got to feel it too!! cuz I told her to not to put her whole warm hand only the fingers . and she felt it. try it !! may be warmness keep them calm