girls. today im in l and d. i came cus i wanted to check if i had burst my babys bubble carrying something heavy. but since i havent been monitoring my sugar levels. regardless that since i have been here they are perfect or low....they say since im noncompliant patient they will induce me tomorrow when i turn 37 weeks. baby size is that of 36 week bb. so i know i make mistake of not monitoring. but i have my reasons. which will never be "good enough" . but using those words my doctor informed me of the above. and since i am getting a very meanish attitude from the doctors...its triggering my depression. what should i do. should i confront them about their tone and simple negativity...or do i just deserve this and should i put up with it.i m not looking forward to going into labor regardless of induction simply because im feeling judged.
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I don't want to come off as rude as well, but they are probably acting standoffish because they are disappointed that you haven't taken the initiative in monitoring your diabetes and providing safety for your baby. They are probably worried that if you ignore your own health due to your issues, you may do the same with the baby. I would suggest asking one of these nurses what you can do to turn this around. See if you can get a referral to a counselor for your mental health issues, and ask for information about diabetes education classes. Most hospital provide them and they are very informative, even for people who have had diabetes for a long time. You need to be healthy for your child. Reach out to these nurses and they will help.
im disappointed in the way they talk with me. the nurses are nice. but they will be standoffish when they hear how im being talked to because they know its a ok to do it.
there is a risk for stillbirth..wheb u have diabetes
my baby is measuring perfectly...uncontrolled diabetes makes for large babies
but those things are not my priority. i took my insulin...somewhat kept away from eating too much...and i kept myself from taking meds that can cause development problems.
im at the point where im not able to get out of bed or sleep or shower at times.
im very very bipolar. with severe depression. im not on meds. for this because they do affect baby. im also having the very severe nausea non stop. so combining those and the fact that im a person who has never been able to diet. i find it amazing im not suffering worse consequeces for my baby.
every time its going to be like this for all moms like me. i fond it sad.
either way i dont gonna care. its just gonna be another unfriendly atmosphere imma deliver in.
Jw y are you not keeping up with ur sugars? @yummycake
@foreveryoung247, exactly after the fact. if they want to induce me because of the risks that they fear. i dont because i feel good and know baby is ok. i feel induction is worse choice but they dont.
because im never compliant and they ofcourse dont care why
so i dunno guys. i just have very bad luck every delivery. i feel i m never going to just me treated nicely
Well I agree you should of been monitoring but it's after the fact and there is nothing they can do about it now.
but i deserve it because im not being responsible mother
theyve been below 190...when i started it was up to 350
Ohh ok that's still no reason to treat you like that and you can refuse induction
They can not make you do anything you don't want to do.
babys bubble is great and im 1 fingertip dilated. having contractions that are bad enough.
Tell them they're hurting your feelings. You don't deserve them to be rude to you like that. People have reasons for everything there's no reason for them to treat you that way because they don't agree with what you have chooses for your life.
@krystal, i understand where they are coming from. its just still an emotionally impactful momment in my own life. where id rather not be lectured or intimidated. im a student in nursing. i know exactly how to treat myself. one thing is what u know the other is what u can do. unfortunately im also disappointed in myself. but my issues are long standing. i do have a wonderful psychologist. and before a psychiatrist. but now im off meds for the time being. its just im a person who tries to not judge others. and i never see that returned. i go out of my way to make someone feel good during stressful challenging events. i am caring for those that are sick...regardless of whether they basically caused it themselves. its just for once id like to be treated well during my delivery. but its just never gonna happen n this is very sad.