It could also be a health risk if you gain too much weight? I'm trying to see it from a medical professional's view, cause y'know, that's their job.

she shouldn't be putting you down but in case you can't switch doctors, I would just talk to her and make her aware of how you are feeling. she may not realize that she is hurting your feelings. some people are very clueless on their actions.

Thank you ladies. I've decided that I'm going to call the clinic tomorrow and email how awkward this situation is, but I'd like a other midwife and explain why. I hope that it's still possible, as I'm only 29 weeks. But we just moved here, so she hasn't been with me through the whole pregnancy. I think this was the third time I've seen her. I really appreciate all your support. ❤️

I agree with you Lizabeth! you should feel relieved when leaving your appointments and this is the happiest time of your life, your body and what it's doing is a blessing. You are beautiful inside and out ❤

i would try to change the midwife..nobody should ever make you feel like that 😐.
all women are beautiful no matter what they look like or how big or small they are 😊