ok please tell me I'm not crazy for being upset by this...my brother met a girl on a dating website (which I'm happy for him it's been a long time since he had a gf) well last night was their FIRST time ever meeting. She had to bring her 3 year old daughter, I'm not too keen on the bringing your children to meet your potential boyfriend right away but things happen and sometimes there isn't much choice so oh well. My family loves kids anyway so it's fine. Well this little girl walked in FILTHY her clothes didn't match, she smelled terrible, and her diaper needed to be changed (which it wasn't for a very long time ) also SHE HAS LICE! anyway I end up going to bed around 1am and her 3 year old was still wide awake and playing and she was still here. then I woke up this morning to see her car still in the driveway. So that means this girl had no idea who my brother is but decided her and her child should stay the night? for all she knows my brother could be a murderer (he isn't ) and I'm upset because I don't know anything about her and I have my baby here. we don't know what she is capable of doing or her past (my son slept in bed with me last night because of it) but like am I just being a bitch for getting upset over all this. I feel terrible for the little girl and I just don't think a mom should be staying at random guys houses with her baby the first time they ever meet.