anyone else feel like their hubbies are totally distant & act like a jerk while you're pregnant? or is it just my…

I have two other kids with him, ones 5 and the other is 2. once I found out I was pregnant, he refused to get a job, didn't seem happy about it, he's always got an attitude and is always a jerk to me..says I'm the one that's the jerk..I don't see it. he ignores me all day, I'm sleepy, I'm grumpy..I admit but I don't spend time with him cause he don't allow it...or because I fall asleep and most of the time I think the only time he wants to spend time together, is for sex. and I've not much been in the mood for that..:/ I'm just lost.

my husband was also a jerk and totally lazy when our babies arrived...I basically felt like a single mother and we fought constantly. I don't know why this is...but guys think they have it hard? I wish they'd walk in our shoes...just once.

Mine wasn't to bad when I was preggo I'm 11 weeks PP and now he is it's insane!! It drives me crazy