so I gave bith naturally to my 17 week old baby. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. but thank God I had my husband and mum with me and a really good midwife. I got to hold my baby... baby was really small, baby wasn't alive at the time it come out. they couldn't confirm the sex and I'm kinda happy about that. baby looks alot like my husband and his mum. my hands and feet. that part was amazing. Happy I got to say goodby... but it dose hurt alot.