so I had my little man on the 8th. I am separated from my husband. my son is not his child. the baby's father didn't want to be around until he met his son in the hospital. he fell in love with his son. I chose to give the baby his last name. everyone keeps telling me I was dumb for giving him his last name. im just tired of people telling me I am dumb for giving him his last name when he didnt want to be there throughout the pregnancy. :'(