His family is meninights (spelling way off) their religion anyways so they wont support nothing inless we get married. They dont accept his child or nothing and he seems to be just fine with that i mean hell he can start life all over and not have to worry about someone saying oh u have a child and responsibilities. The guy use to be all about family and his lil guy then he moved in to his sister for P.O reasoning and he did a complete 360 on us leaven us helpless in winter and i was blooming sick for 4 months with my baby. I hate taken his child away he didnt have his father around after his mom died when he was 15. I thought he wouldnt do the same crap to his own son but i guess some do grow up to be their dads. Its hard and heartbreaking for me. I try not to be depressed but i find myself crying alot either hormones or bc of all this who knows

Yeah that's totally ridiculous !! If he wants to be here for the birth of his child than he can make the trip to you seeing as how his family fully support him.. Thats just selfish for him to even suggest !!

See if he stays with his family he has money but if he leaves he has nothing he isnt the person he was when we first got together

He wont move he has his family there who currently support him fully.

Lol that's ridiculous. fuck that

don't do it. Because right now I'm pretty sure you have your family's support, you're gonna be alone over and I'm pretty sure he won't care. make his ass move where you are.

he can come to you and stay where you are correctly located why should you move to make him his life easier....

He wants to see him, he needs to come to you! My first child's dad lives in a different state. I moved away when she was 1 1/2 yrs old. I've gone back & forth to visit so he can see her but he's only been here once. (She's 7 1/2 now) He used to make a big fuss but you didn't see him come here to see his daughter as he so desperately wanted to. I haven't gone back in about 2 yrs or so... he hasn't even attempted to come!!! He's all talk & a cheap ass... always complaining about having to pay for a plane ticket or hotel stay but everything was OK when I had to pay for those expenses myself PLUS my daughter so we could go over there. And the one time he came, I sent him money to pay for his plane ticket!!

No I wouldn't move back. If he wants to see his child he can come to you! You have family there and it would be better to be there especially when your son comes. You need a reliable support system in your life.

Nopeeee! Stay where you have the most support, if he wants to be involved so bad he can move