Ladies, my babies father lives in a different state (i was living there as well before) i moved to be with my family so he could get his shit together. Anyways he has decided we arent going to work out and that i should move back down there into a place on my own and before my son is born (in 3 months 5 days) so he can see his son be born. I need your opinion on that
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
My bf moved with me to be closer to my family when I got pregnant. He has made it clear he hates living so close to my parents and wants to move. Which is fine, I don't always want to live near my parents. But we also have an 11 month old and another baby due in july. I still go to highschool and told him I just want to finish out highschool without moving schools again. I've done it too many times in my life. And it's hard enough making new friends when your a teen mom. His response is I don't want him to succeed and if I don't move with him he will be fighting for his kids.....idk what to do.😳😳😳
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Kayla·
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His family is meninights (spelling way off) their religion anyways so they wont support nothing inless we get married. They dont accept his child or nothing and he seems to be just fine with that i mean hell he can start life all over and not have to worry about someone saying oh u have a child and responsibilities. The guy use to be all about family and his lil guy then he moved in to his sister for P.O reasoning and he did a complete 360 on us leaven us helpless in winter and i was blooming sick for 4 months with my baby. I hate taken his child away he didnt have his father around after his mom died when he was 15. I thought he wouldnt do the same crap to his own son but i guess some do grow up to be their dads. Its hard and heartbreaking for me. I try not to be depressed but i find myself crying alot either hormones or bc of all this who knows
Heather·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
Yeah that's totally ridiculous !! If he wants to be here for the birth of his child than he can make the trip to you seeing as how his family fully support him.. Thats just selfish for him to even suggest !!
Kayla·
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See if he stays with his family he has money but if he leaves he has nothing he isnt the person he was when we first got together
Kayla·
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He wont move he has his family there who currently support him fully.
Allie·
Lol that's ridiculous. fuck that
Gabriela Hurtado·
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don't do it. Because right now I'm pretty sure you have your family's support, you're gonna be alone over and I'm pretty sure he won't care. make his ass move where you are.
ana·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
he can come to you and stay where you are correctly located why should you move to make him his life easier....
Erika·
He wants to see him, he needs to come to you! My first child's dad lives in a different state. I moved away when she was 1 1/2 yrs old. I've gone back & forth to visit so he can see her but he's only been here once. (She's 7 1/2 now) He used to make a big fuss but you didn't see him come here to see his daughter as he so desperately wanted to. I haven't gone back in about 2 yrs or so... he hasn't even attempted to come!!! He's all talk & a cheap ass... always complaining about having to pay for a plane ticket or hotel stay but everything was OK when I had to pay for those expenses myself PLUS my daughter so we could go over there. And the one time he came, I sent him money to pay for his plane ticket!!
Liz·
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No I wouldn't move back. If he wants to see his child he can come to you! You have family there and it would be better to be there especially when your son comes. You need a reliable support system in your life.
Cindy Kat·
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Nopeeee! Stay where you have the most support, if he wants to be involved so bad he can move