kelsey234
Kelsey
Starting to get serious mum guilt about bringing another little person into our family. He has always been my world and i dont want him to ever feel pushed out. 😥❤
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I felt the same when pregnant with Layla! She was 3 weeks off turning 4 when I had her, so for 4 years she was the centre of my attention and I felt so guilty and thought what if all the time. But honestly when Layla came along Lexi was brilliant. I also had bad anxiety about how I could love another child like I loved Lexi but I love them both equally xx
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Completely normal to feel this way. I think we all do when pregnant 2nd time. But honestly he'll be fine. You won't be treating him any different. There is so much love to go around. At his age it won't be long before he won't remember not having a brother (or sister). Morgan was 2.2 when we had Max. He can't remember Max not being here 😂
I felt the same and I now have a 2 and a 4 year old and there the best of friends when there not fighting and arguing over toys
And now I’m pregnant with my 3rd and having these same kind of thoughts don’t want them to feel I’m replacing them with another baby but they will all be loved the same
He’ll love being a big brother! 😃 he’ll want to get involved and feed and change his sibling the more involved he gets the better he’ll be :)
Haha I hope so! Hes already wanting to change his teddies nappies all the time and things so it's all in good practice 😂 I'll try and keep him as involved as I can 💗 xx
I felt the same when pregnant with Layla! She was 3 weeks off turning 4 when I had her, so for 4 years she was the centre of my attention and I felt so guilty and thought what if all the time. But honestly when Layla came along Lexi was brilliant. I also had bad anxiety about how I could love another child like I loved Lexi but I love them both equally xx
Yeah that's what I'm worried about! I think because hes now going to nursery I dont want him to feel like I've just sent him there cause im going to be too busy with the new baby 😩 I know this is all so silly and he will be amazing but I just dont ever want him to feel second best. ❤ xx
It will all be fine when baby is here honestly! I think everyone gets anxiety about adding a sibling for the only child but I just think it is better that they aren't on their own and they will have eachother. I worried about routine etc too but it all just fell into place and it was strange because it felt like I had already been doing it eventhough there was now 2 lol. I also think it's better to have them with small gaps in age. My Mum always says to me "I don't know how you cope" and I'm like I don't know what you mean lol because I think it's easy with a 6 and 2 year old 🤷🏽♀️😂 I think it's because she had me at 30 and my sister at 39 lol whereas I will be 30 in May and I've already had 2 😂 xx
He will be a brilliant big brother 💙xxx
❤ to be fair I have no doubt about that he already loves changing his teddy bears nappies and feeding them 🤦♀️😂 thanks though lovely 😘 xxx