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Little brother and his fiancé are asking for cash instead of wedding gifts but also insisting they don’t need any gifts (including cash) but yet his fiancé is having a bridal tea party (not calling it a shower) so despite their efforts to insist gifts aren’t necessary, I still feel it would be inappropriate to show up empty handed. There is no registry, what type of gift would you get? Just a card? Something marriage themed like a “MRS.” mug? Or a check for a random amount of money? Gift card? I don’t have a lot of extra money right now so I feel like a straight up check would be akwardly small (bro makes way more $$ than my family)

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— When’s the wedding? I’m getting a couple getting married in October a first Christmas ornament. They are also asking for no gifts

— Wedding is in November but the non-shower is tomorrow lol. The Christmas ornament is a great idea for the wedding! Thanks!

— I would get her a mrs cup with like candy inside or a gift set

— Make them something with Mr and Mrs on it.