jessicasanchez
Jessica Sanchez
Today my friend told me she was pregnant & a part of me died. I held back the tears but I will eventually break down during my shower later on. I love when the water runs down my face. You can’t tell if I’m crying or just enjoying it. Overall I’m happy for her. She’s been thru a lot & deserves some happiness.
5.6 лет
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Are you ttc? Why are you going to break down if you’re happy for her?
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@_ivyjayde, I had a d&c at 9 weeks. I think I am gonna have a second opinion. Thank you for letting me know
@jessicasanchez, my chances lowered significantly because I had the D&C which pretty much scraped any resonating tissue. We started trying again about 3 months after my D&C & Got pregnant about 6 months after the D&C.
My ob didn't have any concerns about how soon I got pregnant or anything.
Maybe ask for another doctors opinion.
They just told me if I decided to wait and let myself miscarry on my own than they would have recommended I wait because there could be left over tissue that would cause another molar
@_ivyjayde, I was hoping they would tell me that. I tried looking for stories of people getting pregnant before the time they give them. I couldn’t find anything & I got sad. Nice to have some hope.
@honeyxxbee, thank you. Let’s hope the next one sticks. I can’t handle another loss.
I read through your comments, I too had a molar pregnancy, but I got pregnant within a year and have a happy, healthy 16 month old now.
I was not told what you have been, I had a D&C and was given the okay to keep trying a cpl months after healing from my D&C. I was told that if I did not have the D&C that chances of another molar was higher though.
@spookylyn, I never did either until it happened to me. I kept reading bout it after.
@jessicasanchez, oh yes I agree! Just try to stay strong and let go in the shower until there are no more tears
@spookylyn, because if I get pregnant before the year, it will be another molar pregnancy & I could get cancer this time. That’s what my doctors told me. They’re monitoring me closely every two weeks
@babymamaof4, I agree. I’m not strong enough & this is a sensitive topic. It alway will be.
@lauren_leigh, because I had a molar pregnancy. & I can’t try for a year. I was excited when I got that positive on my test in April. I would of been due in December.
I agree! Shower is the best place to just cry out some stress
Are you ttc? Why are you going to break down if you’re happy for her?