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Lisa
**I need opions please.. I sent this message to one of my daughter's God mother. She was faced with some serious problems on my birthday last year and ruined it because my husband and I and his best friend which is her boyfriend had to help her. We went to extremes for this lady ok and turned around like God loving ppl to show we weren't judgemental. Well well well.. Here is my message to her since she asked why she hasn't heard from me 😂

Thank you.. Shes doing good.. Well to be honest C, your not hearing from me for the following: I know you been through some ordeal and I think I was a good friend to you and after all that I turned to you and asked you to be a God mother because your man and my husband are like brothers and I wanted us to be closer as he is her God father. I was really sick after your ordeal with a blood clot in my lung days later. I know you were caught up with life as all of us folks are. I know you guys don't have a vehicle so coming to see her isn't easy but I was at deaths door where I loss almost all the blood in my body for 12 days + where a normal human hemoglobin blood level is 140-160 I was at 60-65 organs shut down heart attack but God and his angels stepped in again and spared me. I know you spoke with Richie and he told you what happened. You told him to keep you posted. Obviously he never called you back because he was busy working running back and forth to hospital along with the other kids. You never once called or messaged even me to follow up and ask how I'm doing or if you could do anything to help in regards to Talianna even though we may or may not have accepted, we weren't even given the opportunity. Nothing at all, but you sent videos daily. I don't want to be that woman that the men don't have the same relationship I really tried to show you I'm not judgemental even after what had happened. The least you could have done was text or call.. I know life happens and ppl go through shyt but when I needed a word of encouragement or see if my kids or Richie needed help or a call to show concern, that wasn't even there. That's really sad but I'm over it and no malice in my heart nobody has that power over me. Everything for a time and from any reasonable person looking in on the situation, it's obvious that you didn't care.
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starting_over39

Yup with her fake self I can't stomach ppl like that.. I'm what you see is what you get. @pnutbutta @sashie

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starting_over39

@coco5 you are absolutely right!! Thanks hun 😘

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coco5

That was well said. You simply stated what it was and how you felt. No time for forced relationships. Not necessary...not needed.

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starting_over39

Yup with her fake self I can't stomach ppl like that.. I'm what you see is what you get. @pnutbutta @sashie

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sashie

Yup @starting_over39, I agree with you 1000000000% I had to politely tell of my oldest daughters godmother 2 days ago I’m over it always caring and checking for people and no one does the same 😔

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nullnvoid

I'm glad u were honest with her. No need to fake it

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starting_over39

I did and her response wasn't even remorseful 🙄 point proven 😆 @karmangela I made a post with her response and obviously she was trying to defend herself rather than address her actions which were nil ans and void @morganmommy79 @neko86 @breederofboyz @nessairieray

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karmangela

Always good to speak your mind and let things go

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starting_over39

Same she was online when I was typing it but when she realized I was typing for a long time semhe got off lol..oh well I won't be surprised if she doesn't 😒 lol 😂 @morganmommy79 or probably take her time to think of what to say

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starting_over39

Thank you so much 😘 mama.. @nessairieray

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morganmommy79

Straight to the point. That's what I like. Now I'd love to know how she responds. Lol

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neko86

Well said. Nothing offensive, and you pinpointed exactly what bothered you

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nessairieray

Wow you are so well spoken 😃

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starting_over39

I was pissed on my birthday when the police knocked on my door looking for her like wtf.. And I still wanted to be a nonjudgmental person and made her God mother so she wouldn't feel unwanted around us etc.. Then I get sick and she just send me stupid videos like are you F**king kidding me.. That's when I lost it.. She is nothing to me now.. I don't hate her but she is just there like a random person walking by 🙋🏽deuces.. Now it will be awkward for my husband and her man but that's on her

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breederofboyz

Hey straight blunt no cuts! I think that's good you were able to tell her how you felt. That's being 💯

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