I would cut them off.. would still be pleasant as if I wasn't bothered but honestly I would distance myself and avoid them altogether. Facebook says it all

You're not overreacting, real friends would be there

@meghan.brophy having kids sometimes shows you who your real friends are. There are more loyal people out there for sure.

@s.k.a.m I know. I've pretty much come to terms with it. None of them would even know what he looks like if I didn't post on Facebook

Disrespectful.... if they were your friends they should be there for you... they could reschedule a camping trip anytime....

I'd be angry and questioning these people were really my friends to be honest

@meghan.brophy that sounds intentional to me...

@ashiducharme it annoys me more because she even asked me what day it was before she sent out her invites

That's pretty shitty 😑

I don't think you are. If they had a decent amount of notice for both there's no reason for that. Especially the baby shower. And why would your friend allow her baby shower to be planned the same day as your son's first birthday...? That seems a bit rude to me. :/