Depends what he wants you to do while your up together!? I think it's important to listen to your body. If your tired your tired. But pregnant or not I'm tired all the time so I try to compromise. On a weekend I'd stay up a bit later. But yeh staying up till goodness knows when if it's just to watch tv is pointless. But if your doing something together than maybe try a night here & there would be nice for the both of you.

my issue is Wednesday and Thursday my 3yr old is with his dad so I'm home alone just doing housework. it doesn't matter how much or how little i do I'm exhausted by 9. although Fridays I'm at uni 11-430 get my 3yr old back at 430 and try to get dinner ready for when my partner comes home at 5.. then I work Saturdays Tuesday evening and Wednesday evening. it sounds a lot but when it comes to it its barely nothing compared to how much my partner works. I feel at times I don't make enough effort but I feel soo tired and ill all the time

you're definitely not selfish. It's difficult on you both coz your free times don't match up. You're pregnant and I hope he understood why when you don't stay up.

I know how you feel! When I was pregnant I was totally knackard all the time and now with a 2 months old we don't really get any time together and barely talk. It was be a real strain on any relationship @bethrolls