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Beonka
I'm really gonna go off! Josiah's dad is way to financially dependent! He had a $400 check this week and claimed he owed people so he spent it all up! I told him how I felt about him being too dependent and his response was "So what, I depend on you....you have the better job" that just pisses me off more!! He acts like he's perfectly fine having me pay for EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME! I'm ready to throw in the towel with our relationship! Am I wrong for that? I don't wanna let money come between us but I know for a fact I wouldn't be comfortable letting him buy me everything and spend everything outta his paycheck and I have my own and I can contribute myself....the fact that he can say "so what" about having his lady pay for EVERYTHING speaks volumes to me!!
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justine_kim

yea u right but they definitely exist nonetheless...if we just stopped messing with these scrubs we could see the good men waiting for a queen like us. lol on the real tho, since i left my cheating ass "worst mistake a bitch ever made" baby daddy, I found THE MOST amazing MAN ever(wasn't looking and i thank God i have him) and he wants my unborn son to be his...he's so fiiine(lol extra delicious) & such a romantic...he thinks me being pregnant is the sexiest thing in the world. lol and i thank the Lord for blessing me with my King...so never lose hope 🙌 God is good & let me tell you this..you leave trash where it's at baby...i got no regrets and my new man now knows what responsibilities mean. i plan to marry for life not for Christmas and only marry a man that you would be proud for your son to be like. 💗 I may not have made my baby with the right man but i will most def raise him with the one God intended for me to have 😉 @beezy_mcflyy @babykamya2016

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justine_kim

yea u right but they definitely exist nonetheless...if we just stopped messing with these scrubs we could see the good men waiting for a queen like us. lol on the real tho, since i left my cheating ass "worst mistake a bitch ever made" baby daddy, I found THE MOST amazing MAN ever(wasn't looking and i thank God i have him) and he wants my unborn son to be his...he's so fiiine(lol extra delicious) & such a romantic...he thinks me being pregnant is the sexiest thing in the world. lol and i thank the Lord for blessing me with my King...so never lose hope 🙌 God is good & let me tell you this..you leave trash where it's at baby...i got no regrets and my new man now knows what responsibilities mean. i plan to marry for life not for Christmas and only marry a man that you would be proud for your son to be like. 💗 I may not have made my baby with the right man but i will most def raise him with the one God intended for me to have 😉 @beezy_mcflyy @babykamya2016

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babykamya2016

I agree a real man would help u out not always expecting a handout but nowadays it's so hard to find a real man these days

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beezy_mcflyy

@justine_kim, lol I feel you

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justine_kim

sounds like my piece of shit baby daddy...girl i left his ass already...get yourself a real man who wont talk to u that way...any man that says "so what" dont give 2 shits & a fxck...

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housfullofgrls

Hell no. Put your foot down or get a new man

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sparklymama

oh definitely not and I agree with you on that like I said he needs some act right... set your standard you deserve so much more

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beezy_mcflyy

@sparklymama, All I ask for is 50/50!! I don't want him to do everything for me! Just pay your way if you can, I'll pay mine, if I need help or I'm in a hole I know I can depend on you and vise versa...not every time I get paid I gotta hear..."Um can you help me out with rent" "How much is on your card?" "Let me see your card....I wanna get something to eat" or we go out to eat and I have to pay! I wouldn't feel right doing that to him and he shouldn't feel right doing it to me!!

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sparklymama

while I disagree that a man should take care of a woman I'm way too much of an independent woman to accept that reality... I do not feel it is okay with a man to be okay with being taken care of either 50/50 in my book and I do believe in setting that expectation... he better go get some act right

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deafmama16

You're right and he just using you honey

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beezy_mcflyy

@deafmama16, I agree! I mean if your man is down and needs you then that's one thing but for a man to have a job that he goes back and forth to, works a lot of hours and gets paid, spends up his money and solely depends on his girlfriend to pay rent and EVERYTHING ELSE is beyond wrong! I told him a real woman can do it all by herself but a real man won't let her....he just replied "so what....you have the better job".....shit just pissed me off!

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deafmama16

A real man takes care of things financially while a woman takes care of him by making him feel loved and happy.

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