Lol see it was all in your independent woman head trust me I know the feeling it's one of me and my partners main problems I refuse to ask and expect an offer but everyone doesn't operate like that I've never gotten a no when I do ask it's just the asking part is hard for me 😊

@ginag918, I sucked it up and asked him he will get me some from the bank tomorrow :-) I don't feel embarrassed because he was ni c e about it :-)

@mommy_of_02, your mom is so right that made me laugh and your right to it is what a relationship is about I sucked it up and asked him and he said he will when he can get to the bank hes leaving to work now,and I don't want to run to the bank so he will get it tomorrow :-)

Girl I'm the same way and that will get you no where and you will eventually resent him because most guys are not like us women if you don't ask they won't do lol sounds like he should soon be able to afford you some shoes and a decent fit for school it's gonna be hard but ask him!!

Everyone needs help from there SO every now. That's what a relationship is about. Helping one another.

One thing my mom always told me if he can ask you for some pussy then you can ask him for what ever you want. The milk from the cow ain't free. Excuse my language though. But if y'all are in a relationship for the long run or not you should be able to ask and he should be able to help without complaining.

@mrskel1, I'm size 11/12 pants shoes Size 10, the only thing is in beauty school I need all black clothes I'm almost done so if I have one black pair I can be OK with that till schools over I'm done in mid July at the latest mid august ,I shouldn't feel bad to ask him for help when he asked me knowing I don't have the income I'm just never comfortable asking I just find my way around things or wait it out till I can get it maybe Plato's Closet will have cheap pants for like $20 or less or shoes

What size shoes/clothes are you? Maybe either I or someone ale on here could give you some cute hand me downs

no its 2000 a week he just started ,I don't ask him for thing because I'm very independent or at least trying my best to be and hate asking for help from others iv had to do it for a long time sense I used to be a teen mom and don't want to be a burden or atleast feel like one he doesn't know I need things because I don't want to ask for help although yes I know he my bf and should help and at times help with out me asking but still ... and nope you didn't offend ,and yes I'm a cosmetologist and that's true you have to look the part to be play the part I just feel guilty asking for help and rather live off my tips when I get them @ginag918

Ok please don't take offense in only trying to understand maybe it was a typo but I'm just curious if BF works two jobs one $11 an hour and the other $2000 a week (unless you meant $200 a week) I am curious as to why you can't just ask him to buy you a pair of shoes and pants for school? And you shouldn't feel guilty you have to be presentable and equipped to go to school and make the money sounds like you are a cosmetologist so you will need to be presentable to make the tips you have to be the best you can be in order to be the best for your kids!!! 😊 I hope I didn't offend