yes i do understand!!! thats what my SO told me too that we would be in a place by six months....... and i dont think mine really understood about the nesting either..... i dont they unferstand how real it is..... @emkasting

@mspeece he knows how upset I am about it, I cry literally every day from being stressed out. We broke our lease at our last house because the landlords wouldn't take care of maintenance issues whatsoever, then when we told them we were gonna have to move out they sent us a freaking eviction notice which we are STILL trying to fight. So since then we have been staying with family. And that stresses me out in itself because nesting certainly is important! Whenever I bring up nesting I feel like he thinks I'm kidding or something. He's a great guy all around but I don't think he really understands how intense this is getting for me, for both of us. He told me when I first found out I was pregnant that we would be settled in a place by the time I was 6 months along. Here I am 8 months and we still haven't moved. And because of that bullshit eviction I'm really scared we will get denied 😰. This is truly tearing me apart. I'm hoping the fact that he lived at the house before that for 4 years with a great record will help the fact that we have an eviction, and if we explain how the eviction happened because it really is bs. We were paying out of pocket for things that were supposed to be the landlords responsibility, shit like that. Ugh sorry for the rant but it's nice to know there's someone out there that's super pregnant and understands the exact stress.

@emkasting,

yes i was too..... i would cry at random times real hard more and more as tge time came closer and our applications were getting turned down..... wich was alit if work to make arrangements for the showings then get the applications done and the application processes are all different...... but now that one accepted us and we signed the lease i finally stopped crying all the time thinking that i would have to move in with my mom! its like really important for us to nest.....i dont think my SO really understood that......but i am releived i can finally nest now...... idk what to say because i want to say dont worry but you have too!!! my advise would be maybe let him know how upset it all makes you!!!! maybe it will kick his but into gear....... i finally started crying about it in front of my SO at like 36 weeks i was trying to hide it for some reason but i think when i finally just broke down and cryed in front of him then he started to get a little more serious.......

@mspeece oh man really? I'm not glad you're in that situation but I'm glad that someone can relate. It really sucks. I'm 32 weeks 3 days. At least you've signed the lease!! I'm sure that I'll probably 38-39 weeks before we even do that. I'm freaking out big time

@emkasting,

i had a very similar problem. .... we finally signed the lease last week and still havent moved nothing at all and all this is finally happening and im 38 weeks today!!! talk about cutting things close! !!! i know that feeling your having.......

I loveeeee when they don't realize how close something is! Ugh sorry girl.