*Small rant to mother and father in law: *I could care less if you think I hold my newborn son too much. He needs the cuddles and every baby is different , just because you got lucky and your sons didn't cry everyday doesn't mean that I'm doing something wrong with mine. Besides you only see him at his fussiest time of day and keep him away from me the whole damn time except when he needs to nurse . K, thank you mamas, that was just gnawing at me.