i just know how my hubby is...he freaks out over every little thing...even when hes off of work he doesnt help like he should

I feel you. My son is 1.5 and I wish I would've left him alone with my husband more when he was younger because he still just isn't used to it. I know it freaks you out thinking about your baby missing or wanting you but honestly it's best to start leaving them with their dad at a young age that way they're used to it!