wow. ya he said him and his dad got into it like that too and his mom called the cops

He's definitely not a good father figure and I was always so scared that my hubby would end up just like him but he's not thank god. He can't stand the way his father is. And my hubby told me one day I will never treat my sons like he did me. We have a 5 yo and another on the way. But he has been good to our 5 yo. I know I don't have to worry bout that. Idk his dad definitely has some issues!

@february2016, his dad has always been a POS! We've been together almost 8 years! And when we were 16 I remember his dad beating the shit out of him over stupid shit

@alianagirl, I agree

lol my uncle owns a bar and my family gets along cause they work there... I just think when men get older they get grumpy and bitter most the time lmao

work and family never a good mix. I've always said that

@february2016, yup his dad said the same thing when we told him we were pregnant again. And every time he sees me all he does is tell me I'm fat and lazy etc. cause I used to work for him too as the secretary but I quit because he was cussing me out and I couldn't handle it. I flat told him your son don't treat me that way so why in the hell do you think I'll put up with u treating me that way?!! Hell no! He's still mad cause I won't come back. He keeps begging me too but I refuse to

@alianagirl, he went back cause he feels bad for his dad. But his dad doesn't appreciate anything he does for him! He's just messed up in the head. And I told my hubby I will support him in whatever he does. If he wants to leave and find another job than I'll be right there with him. He doesn't deserve to be treated that way! His dad always tells him I wish you would stop acting like my son and act like an employee. Well then he needs to quit treating him like his son and treat him right. It pisses me off. I have never heard of a boss going up to someone every day telling them they're a fuck up etc. a boss is supposed to encourage you and let it be known that your work is appreciated!

ya my ol mans dad does nothing but bitch at him and tells him what a fuck up he is the only time his dad was proud of him and said it was when he graduated high school and when he got his motorcycle. thats it other then that he does nothing but bitch and when his dad found out we were pregnant again he was like god you fucked up again. he said that with our daughter too it pisses me off.

why would ur hubby go back!? sounds to me like the dad is very manipulative... not a good or healthy situation. I'll tell you my hubby worked for his family business also and 6 months after being married with me he stopped. ..why. . cause if the same crap. ..it wasn't his dad mostly his brother and mother. .u couldn't stand it. ..I kept telling him he needed to quit and find something else cause they were abusing of him and bringing him down. I didn't care of he made less or if we struggled a little more. ..but it's a much healthier environment now. ..he couldn't be happier. ..just keep praying God opens doors ...and don't make him feel inferior. talk to him with respect. tell him he's worth much more