Ok ladies I need advice. My mother in law would like me to send her a list of people to invite to the shower she and her friends want to throw. I only have like 5 female friends and the closest one is 2hrs away. My question is...is it bad/rude to send them invites to multiple showers? I already know I want to invite them to the shower my mom and sister in law are throwing which will be basically a family reunion and these girls are my family. I don't know what to tell my mother in law.