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Amanda
I don't really mind being pregnant but I can't wait until our daughter is born and I can go back on my meds. I suffer from depression and anxiety as well as a few other mental health issues. I was hoping I'd be OK off my meds during pregnancy but I feel like shit all the time 😭 and I've been trying really hard not to complain because I know it just seems dramatic but I just feel so run down. And without my meds I just feel like a crazy person. And I know everything will work out but I'm just so tired. I just want to feel better ya know? Maybe just feel normal for a day. All I've been is a crying mess. I was using my birthday as something to look forward to since my parents wanted to celebrate this year and now my mom canceled my birthday and I'm an adult it's fine but I just... idk I really needed something positive in the near future to help me keep going and I feel like I have nothing now. And I know that's shitty to say because my daughter will be here in September but I'm really struggling I just needed something small and soon. And now I feel whiney and I don't want to be whiney but I just... idk. I just feel so small
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bbyenolan22

Oh how cool! @lorly04 Christmas engagements are so sweet [well I suppose they all are lol]

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bbyenolan22

Oh how cool! @lorly04 Christmas engagements are so sweet [well I suppose they all are lol]

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mommyslittleman

I'm sorry sweetie! It'll work out! Btw, My husband and I got engaged on Christmas too and then pregnant in February. We just got married last month.

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bbyenolan22

Because she got mad I won't move in with her 😩 because she won't let me if I don't get rid of my cat @lorly04

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mommyslittleman

Why did she cancel?

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twinmamma2015

I have been off my meds as well and my parents were nervous about how I'd be. They said they have never seen me laugh or smile more than I have since I became pregnant. Even though I have my days where I'm miserable both physically, mentally and emotionally I still laugh n smile more than ever. I'm sure that just feeling the lil guys moving around helps a lot ☺☺

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amillar23

@bbyenolan22, I was on high amounts of anti-anxiety and anti-depressants before I found out I was pregnant. And once I found out they put me on an extremely low dose of both and then ended up completely taking me off of them because they did nothing. Unfortunately some days are going to be extremely hard no matter what you do, but you just have to stay organized and busy as best you can until it's over. Trust me, I know it's insanely hard. There are some days when I don't even want to get up and move and other days where all I can do is have a nervous breakdown. But you have to let yourself have a breakdown every once in awhile, otherwise it will come out in a big, chaotic breakdown. So not all of the time, but every once in awhile just let yourself break. But then do something relaxing like watch a movie or read a book or paint your nails or organize your coming baby's stuff. And just remember to take a deep breath. Trust me, I know how horrible it feels and the anxiety of "am I hurting the baby?" "What's going to happen when the baby gets here?" "Am I ready for this?" "Omg why is this happening today?", but as cheesy as it sounds you just have to breathe and take a little bit of time to yourself even if it's just 15 minutes and just let it out. It's not going to make it perfect by any means, but I promise it will help a little bit.

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mommyof10627

I Understand What You Feel But PRAYER LAUGHTER & THINKING of Your BABY Should Make You Feel Better No Amount of Medication Can Beat That You'll Be Fine It's A Challenge Try Writing Down Your Thoughts & Listening 2 Peaceful Music Also Speak 2 People Who Deal With The Same Thing and Find Out What They Do . It's The Same As It Being Hard For Me Trying 2 Conceive I Want 2 Cry & Curl Up In A Ball Because I See So Many Girls Pregnant Easily Even The Ones Who Can't Take Care of The Kids But I Have 2 Stay POSITIVE & PRAY & Think I'm Not Alone In This Journey YOU AREN'T EITHER THINK ABOUT YOUR BABY IT'S SO MANY OF US TRYING 2 GET WHAT YOU HAVE & ONCE YOUR BABY IS BORN YOU WON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT

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missing115user

I was on an antidepressant before I found out I was pregnant and as soon as I found out I had my doctor take me off. I feel really crappy sometimes but I try my best to stay positive because I know that medication could hurt my baby and I know that stress isnt good for baby either. Itll be worth it in the end!

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xoxokera

@bbyenolan22,

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xoxokera

hugs I'm sorry! feel better put a ☺ on your face! your daughter is a great blessing :) if you ever want to chat I'm always up for listening

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